Disfunción o desadaptación en las relaciones de pareja por celos y consumo de sustancias.

Abstract

The present qualitative monograph contains a documentary review, based on the technique of collecting information in eighteen researches taken from the following databases: Redalyc.org, Dialnet.org, Search.Scielo.org, Mytesis.org , Sciencedirect.com, M.monografias.com, Google Academic, national and international articles, virtual journals such as the science magazine of the University of Antioquia, chilean journal, Universidad Pedagógica y Tecnológica journal, database of the Universidad Cooperativa of Montería and monographic works of the University of Pamplona. Published between February 2008 and March 2017. It presents a systemic analysis of the manifestations that occur from two types of dysfunctions; jealousy and consumption of substances that in the dynamics of the conjugal subsystem perform the adaptation process to achieve morphostasis or morphogenesis. In the first dysfunction you can experience situations of jealousy that are defined as a fear; the fear of losing a certain thing, object, function or relationship (Roble, 2017). Their state of constancy can present a crisis in the couple dynamics evidenced from emotional, psychological and behavioral manifestations; the crisis process manifests itself from: sadness, anger or anger at the situation of jealousy, towards the partner, fear of losing the couple, fear of being left alone, feelingsof disability, worry, threat and anxiety. Psychological processes occur from an ideology that is influenced by culture, parental and intergenerational patterns, which in turn bring an aggressive or violent predisposition to a situation of jealousy, devaluation, inferiority, affectation of self-concept and self-esteem, cause a distance between the real image and the ideal that the person has of himself. The manifestations like sexual aggression, shouts, insults and humiliations. To achieve maintenance of the subsystem from the morphostasis, an adjustment is required consisting of submission, acceptance or adaptation to the dysfunction of the spouse, either because both members present it or because who does not present it learned to live with it. The secondanalysis dysfunction called consumption establishes that the conjugal subsystem is affected by the presence of behavioral changes such as shouting, insults, humiliation and even physical and sexual aggression by the spouse who consumes substances. Likewise, the spouses manifest feelings of sadness, dissatisfaction, low self-esteem, inferiority, and guilt, however, even if the relationship is destructive, that is, acquires a morphostasis; that tends to maintain or preserve dysfunction, the spouse is maintained by economic dependence, emotional dependence and fear of losing the couple, that is, the couple is perceived as a unit, recognized and valued by the macro system as the ideal couple by conceptualization family, which helps to improve individual identities and the relationship, allowing the subsystem to be maintained.